Monday, March 15, 2010

ABC...XYZ

Im feeling a little nostalgic today.

I want to know about my past.
about my family.
about my original sperm donor.
about his past, his family(about the blood that also circulates inside me).
I have tried to talk to his son (my long lost brother) but it seems to be a dead end street.
I found his wife on facebook.
I emailed her but again, n o r e s p o n s e.
They have made it clear they dont want me in their days, in their thoughts.
but for some reason I havent given up.
I wish I knew his mother..I heard she was a great woman.
Damnt it cancer.
why must you be so vicious?
please leave my life alone.
please.
last night I found a cousin I never knew I had online..weird.
I emailed her.
I hope she responds.
I also found my aunt. I remember getting a card from her and my uncle when I was younger.
My uncle (his brother) is a doctor.
He delivered me from my mothers womb.
He was the first person to see me.
To touch me.
To feel me.
To smile at me.
I wonder what his life is like.
My mother said he was a real character, her favorite out of the brothers.
I wish I could see him again, its been 22 years too long.
I wonder if he would recognize me.
maybe my smile?
my cry?
my eyes?
but then again when he saw me they were all filled with white gooey stuff for I had not been cleaned yet.
Have I ever been clean?
I wonder if he ever gave me a bath?
Washed my hair.
Rubbed my hands in soap..the same hands that I've heard looks just like his.
He was around for awhile before he left my mother.
He heard me say my first words (I hope it was fuck you).
He watched me take my first steps (I hope it was to my mother).
He read me books, bought me toys, and listened as I sang the ABCs.
Then he left.
I probably smiled as I said "Goodbye daddy" not aware that it would be the last time I ever said both words.
Its besides the point now because both words have lost their meaning.
I decided to write him a poem.
an ABC poem.
Its the least I could do right?
Afterall, he tought my my ABC's so it only seems fitting to write a poem that incorporates his teachings and my feelings upon his departure.
He left me with 20 consonants.
5 vowels.
and 1 giant Y.
For this letter is far too important to conform to any of these 2 catagories.
Y will always stand alone.
Always.

And the silence sways in

But it still seems so loud

Cant find the source

Don’t want to find it..

Enough is enough

Find it some other day

Got my lips sewn shut

Have no room for setbacks

I need the fork in the road to come

Just need to find a way out

Keep myself together

Long enough to feel clean again

Maybe someday I’ll know the truth

Nothing but the truth

One day I’ll be free

People come and go

Queens and kings die alone

Reasons never find meaning

Still I keep on trying

Trying to get this right

Unlike you and all your make believe lies.

Very convient, you agree?

What happened to you?

XXX?

You counting all the times we felt each other?

Zero.

1 comment:

  1. i liked that a lot. that's a lame thing to say when you just say that, but i mean it.

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